Many people joke about Viagra and for this reason, a very useful and effective drug has become something of a talking point. This is a great pity as some men now feel embarrassed or ashamed to admit that they are using Viagra or some similar drug. Some men even keep it a secret and so do not let their sexual partner know that they are using Viagra. If this is something that you are hiding from your girlfriend, this article is especially for you.
Why use Viagra?
Viagra can be used by any man that is having problems gaining an erection. You may have been to your doctor and been diagnosed with erectile dysfunction (ED) or impotency or you may just feel that you need a ‘boost’ in the bedroom department. Viagra is a pill that works on the body to assist the flow of blood to the penis, thus giving a natural erection when you need it.
I feel embarrassed to admit I need Viagra
Literally millions of men worldwide use Viagra or some similar drug. It is easy to use and obtain and can enable you to take part in sexual intercourse whilst you are having impotency problems. You should not feel embarrassed at all to use a drug like Viagra as it is just a medical treatment for a health problem, like many other prescription medicines. Any man can be affected by ED and so many need to use Viagra or similar treatments. This is not something that has targeted just you so you are in no way unique or different or odd just because you need to use Viagra.
Should I confide in my sexual partner that I use Viagra?
Yes, absolutely. You should tell your girlfriend of sexual partner that you are having temporary problems and that using Viagra will enable you both to continue to enjoy a normal sex life until the cause of your erectile dysfunction disappears or is treated. Because there are a great many reasons for your having ED, sometimes you may get over the episode of ED quickly or sometimes it may take a little longer. When you visit your doctor for advice and a diagnosis, consider taking your partner with you so that they can join in with the conversation and feel that it is a problem to be shared, not shouldered by you alone. You should never feel that you need to hide your problem away or pretend that you do not have ED. It is something that men suffer from, get treated and then recover from. Even if you have a long term medical condition or illness that is causing your impotency, the medical industry has many ways of treating ED and of enabling you to have a normal sex life in spite of it.
Tell your girlfriend that you are using Viagra and get through your problems together. You may even find that sharing your concerns enhances your relationship rather than detracts from it.